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PLEASE DO NOT READ THIS CHAPTER
ALOUD WHERE SMALL CHILDREN MAY HEAR IT.
After reading this chapter, you may
also enjoy reading "The Christian Clause"
Since December, 2000 I've had a
really fun, part-time job. However, it was very
seasonal. Every December I played Santa Claus. I have a great costume and I
bleach my beard and hair snow white (www.longmontsanta.com).
I'm invited to visit office parties, home parties and other events, talking
to over 500 children each year. Believe
me, it is a great job and has been a real blessing to me.
When I begin preparing myself to be Santa Claus I have to go through a
mental shift because early in my Santa career I realized that when I
was dressed as Santa there were certain things I must do and certain things
I must never do.
Why? Because I never know when a small child may be watching me. Heaven
forbid that I should ever do anything as Santa Claus that is not
appropriate.
Things, as Santa, I Must Always Do.
Smile
Laugh a lot
Be gentle and quiet with very small children
Be prepared with extra candy canes
Wave at small children I pass in the car
Be prepared at any time to talk about reindeer, presents, Christmas Eve
snacks and chimneys
Things, as Santa, I Must Never Do.
Drive too fast
Slide through stop signs
Show a frown on my face
Raise my voice
Forget that I am Santa Claus
I got to thinking. Shouldn't we, as Christians, always be aware that
others may be watching to see how Christians act and behave? Just as I,
dressed as Santa Claus, could by a wrong action terribly upset a small
child, so we, as Christians, can turn others away from God by a small,
unthinking action.
One of my sons, hiking with a friend in Nepal, asked for shelter for the
night at a small monastery up in the hills. They were not made to feel
welcome at all. A businessman whom I know, attends Church regularly with his
family and practices many habits of "good" Christians. However, his terrible
attitude and treatment of other business people makes them wonder if
Christians are really any different from others.
Over the years my wife and I have visited several churches where there
was no sense of hospitality or welcome. We walked in, took a bulletin,
seated ourselves, shook hands with people around us when the Pastor said to
do so, worshiped, prayed, sang hymns and walked out without anyone bothering
to really greet or talk to us. Oh yes, they appeared friendly with those they knew. In
fact, several times we saw a group of greeters and ushers talking and
laughing in a group while ignoring everyone else who was coming to worship.
How many times have you seen a Christian lose their temper, snub another
person, walk out of a meeting in anger, say something mean-spirited. It
happens but it shouldn't. Customer Service experts tell us that it takes at
least seven to twelve good experiences to overcome just one
bad experience. Further, people will often share that bad experience with
others.
Some time ago a local grocery store had all their employees wear a button
that said, "We want to exceed your expectations." WOW! I love it when
someone exceeds my expectations. What do you suppose would happen if we
worked to exceed other people's expectations of Christians?
In Matthew, Jesus tells us several times to always be prepared for His
return. Every morning it is up to each one of us, as the Apostle Paul says,
to "put on all of God's armor". Can you do it? Can I do it? NO! We cannot do
it ourselves.
The answer is, as Paul said, "Don't copy the behavior and customs of this
world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you
think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how
good and pleasing and perfect his will really is." (Romans 12:2 NLT) |