I ring the doorbell and three small children answered the door, all yelling
"GRANDPA!"My doorbell rings and when I opened it there were two small
children yelling "GRANDPA!"
The phone rings, I pick it up and hear a small child yelling "HI GRANDPA!"
What fun!!!!!
I now have ten grandchildren and they all call me Grandpa.
Grandpa!
What a wonderful
name that is. It is music to my ears. I love it when they call me Grandpa. I
feel better when they call me Grandpa or refer to me in a conversation as
Grandpa. The only thing better is when they come running at me with arms
wide open to hug me and at the same time calling "Grandpa" with a wonderful
sense of joy in their voice. It makes my heart soar.
However, let's also be realistic. Being a Grandpa is a huge
responsibility but
one I gladly take on. "What responsibility?" you ask.
If I am Grandpa, then I am not a parent, not a school teacher or a Sunday
School teacher. But I am a teacher of many things. And being Grandpa means I
must be totally trustworthy and totally honest. I have vowed to never lie to
any grandchild. I may not tell them the entire story because it may not be
appropriate, but I will never lie to them. Once, several
years ago, I told a "white lie" and my oldest Granddaughter caught me. It was then I realized that
I could not, would not ever tell a lie, not even a "white lie," to my grandchildren.
Consequently, my grandchildren know I will never lie to them, that they are totally safe with me, that I
will never hurt them and that I will do my best to have fun with them and
to let them have fun with me. I may even spoil them a little from time
to time. <grin>
As I was thinking about how great being called Grandpa makes me
feel, I got to thinking about what we call God and Jesus and how it
must make them feel.
I remember something that really struck me in Mel Gibson's movie "The
Passion of Christ". The people around Jesus called Him "Lord." But they
didn't say it the way you and I might say it. We tend to say it like we're
talking to royalty -- a little stilted, holding Him at arm's length. In the
movie it was said with great love, tenderness and closeness. In fact, if
they had used the word "Love" instead of the word "Lord", it would have
sounded the same. Haven't you ever referred to someone close to you as
"Love?" They used "Lord" the same way.
Do you suppose Jesus likes to be called "Lord" as much as I like to be
called "Grandpa?" Maybe even more? And what about all those other wonderful
names the Bible tells us we can call him? I once counted over 100 names for
Jesus from the Bible.
The Old Testament especially is full of many, many wonderful names for
God, here are just a few with their Hebrew version:
Elohay Mishpat - God Of Justice:
(Isaiah 30:18)
Elohay Selichot - God Of Forgiveness: (Nehemiah 9:17)
Elohay Marom - God Of Heights: (Micah 6:6)
Elohay Mikarov - God Who Is Near: (Jeremiah 23:23)
Elohay Mauzi - God Of My Strength: (Psalm 43:2)
On the other side of this discussion are two big problems.
- How do you suppose God feels when we take His name in vain? I know
that if one of my grandchildren call me a bad name and not Grandpa it
really hurts
— a lot. Do you suppose God feels the same way when we
misuse His name?
- How do you explain God's love to a person who has been terribly hurt,
maybe even molested, by a parent or grandparent? I don't know the answer to
this one. If you do, please share it with me.
So what have I learned from being Grandpa? I think I've learned that God wants us
to run towards Him with our arms wide open, totally trusting and calling him
Lord, Father, Love or one the many other wonderful names for Him. |